Wingin’ It With Auntie Pam: Laughs, Life, and a Little Chaos

Hey y’all! You can call me Auntie Pam—your new favorite online bestie out here wingin’ it like a pro. I’m a proud dog mom to my bougie fur babies: Big Papa Alexander (the kingpin who runs the house), Star Alexis (the diva who thinks she’s Beyoncé), and Lil Kim Alexandria (the certified instigator who’s always starting drama and acting innocent after). Yes, they all got middle names because, let’s be honest, they deserve them.

Now let’s get into it—this year has been a whole movie for me. I hit the big 4-0 (and still out here aging like fine wine), graduated with my BA in Human Services, AND got accepted into a Master’s program. Baby, I am booked, blessed, and slightly stressed, but we keep it moving. What am I gonna do with all this education? Chile, who knows? But for now, I’m putting it on the shelf right next to my dreams and my snacks.

This blog is my safe space to talk about all the messiness of life when you’re turning 40, raising dogs who act like toddlers, chasing goals, and still figuring out how to budget without crying. I’m here for my girls who don’t have a 5-year plan, just vibes and survival instincts. Whether you’re a boss chick, a tired mama, a career changer, or just out here Googling “How to adult,” this space is for YOU.

We’re gonna laugh at life’s curveballs, cry over random TikToks at 2 a.m., and maybe figure some things out along the way (emphasis on maybe). This is a judgment-free zone for my sisters from all walks of life who are winging it, thriving in chaos, and making it work one prayer and iced coffee at a time.

So grab your favorite drink (mine’s wine in a mug because dishes are optional) and pull up, sis. Let’s talk about the real, the messy, the funny, and the fabulous. This is our space to laugh, learn, grow, and remember—we may not have it all together, but we’ve got each other.